MMF#54: Coach first friend second, auditing your focus, and the truth about people!!

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MINDSET, MONEY AND FREEDOM

3 Things to Change Your Life…

by Brendan Chaplin

Hey friend,

Happy Saturday.

This week is about three things that will change how you think, how you make money, and how you create freedom in your life.

  • Attention is fuel — whatever you focus on will grow

  • High-ticket coaching requires leadership, not friendship

  • True freedom comes when you finally listen to what people are showing you

In case you haven’t seen it I have my Own ChatGPT and I want you to have it for free.

It’s called ‘Brendan’s Change Your Life GPT’. It takes you through a series of questions then prepares a business plan for you to launch your new idea.

I did it in response to the thousands of comments I’ve had on My Youtube Channel this week alone asking about how to get to Spain and build an online business.

You can get access here (no opt in required)

Enjoy 🙂 

Right, let’s jump into it.

Xx

MINDSET : WHATEVER YOU GIVE ATTENTION TO, GROWS.

This is one of the most underrated but powerful ideas in personal growth.

Wherever your attention goes, energy flows.
So if you’re obsessing over why things aren’t working, they’ll probably stop working even more.
If you’re fixating on things going wrong, guess what shows up? More of the same.

But the same principle works in reverse.
Give attention to your health, it improves.
Focus on freedom, you create space.
Focus on money-generating activities, and you make money.

It sounds simple because it is.
But it’s easy to forget, especially when the world is noisy and your mind is full.

So here’s the reminder: check what’s taking up your attention.
Ask yourself, do I want more of this?

If not, stop feeding it.

MONEY: COACH FIRST, FRIEND SECOND.

If you want to sell high-value coaching, this is the rule.
Coaches that try to be liked, try to be everyone’s friend, end up broke or burnt out, or both.

The best coaches are leaders.
They are clear, direct, and unshakeable in what they stand for.

When you operate from leadership, you create transformation.
When you try to be liked, try to please, you create confusion.

Go through your current client list and audit the relationships:

  • Are you seen as a coach or a cheerleader?

  • Are you leading the room or trying to be liked?

  • Are your boundaries tight or constantly compromised?

And then correlate that to your fees.
You’ll see a direct relationship between your authority and your income.

If you want to sell at high-ticket levels, you must lead.
Speak with certainty. Show up with clarity. Deliver with power.

Coach first. Friend second. Every time.

FREEDOM: PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE WITH THEIR ACTIONS.

The people around you have a huge impact on your energy, your clarity, and your growth.
And here’s the thing: most of them are showing you exactly who they are.

Through their language.
Through their decisions.
Through their attitude to risk, growth, time, responsibility.

But we often ignore it.
Because we want them to be someone they’re not.
Because we hold on to hope. Or history.

That’s not freeing, that’s draining.

When you start to accept people for who they are, not who you wish they were, everything shifts.
You can build new relationships with the right people.
You can protect your energy.
You can start operating in alignment with your future, not your past.

That’s where real freedom comes from.

See you next week.

Brendan
Xx

My work changes lives, here’s just a few recent examples:

  • A selection of clients winning Here

  • Learn how Sam from a handful of clients signed 5 clients from one event Here

  • Learn how Russell generated £32k of increased revenue in just 6 weeks Here

  • Hear from Craig who signed his first £30k client and scale from there Here

  • A selection of my clients speaking about their personal and business transformations: https://youtu.be/DefGWRjHrsA 

  • Tons more on my website here.

  • And my Linkedin here (scroll to featured section).

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